Annie Lane writes the Dear Annie advice line.
Dear Annie: we have already been hitched for 43 years. We have a life that is good or more I was thinking. Recently I learned that an affair has been had by him. Him about it, he told me that it was only for eight months when I asked. And then he stated the good explanation ended up being because i might not start intercourse. Ha, this is certainly a two means street. Anyhow, used to do some checking and discovered down so it had been for just two years. He’s got seen her on Christmas time and brand brand New 12 months’s Eve. And then he also came across along with her on OUR anniversary. However discovered which he went along to see her a couple of hours once I had major lung surgery.
He has cried and told me exactly how sorry he’s. And exactly how foolish he had been for achieving this. Each day since i came across this away, he has got said he could be sorry. But the following is my issue. First, she was lent by him some funds not much, but $400, and she repaid $100. He’s been calling her wanting the others. I came across out he called her, and then he told me yes, he desires their cash. He was told by me to forget it.
2nd, he’s had back surgery 3 times. The one that is last him with numbness and weakness both in feet. And then he now has many sorts of erection dysfunction. Therefore, i will be wondering if he stopped seeing her to come calmly to me thus I may take care of him. We have experienced sex, but he could be various somehow. It’s not exactly the same it really makes me wonder as it used to be, and.