Who, btw, claims it is the best kind of intercourse you’ll have.
Few things in life are since misinterpreted as BDSM. The sex practice gets a rap that is bad one that’s physically or mentally harmful, the one that just survivors of punishment embrace, plus one that is abnormally kinky. But it is really none of these things.
At its most elementary, BDSM is definitely an umbrella term for three groups: bondage and control, dominance and distribution, and sadism and masochism (more information on those who work in minute). They may each sound frightening in unique right, but you can have, says Holly Richmond, PhD, a somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist because they rely on a judgement-free zone where communication about your desires and boundaries come first, BDSM can actually be the safest (and most fun) kind of sex.